Saturday, September 19, 2009

Musings


Adulthood is an important phase in one’s life. The physical and biological changes that take place are something difficult to comprehend. Its nature’s way of expressing the beauties of change. God seems to be a man, otherwise how he can comprehend all the beautiful changes that take place to girls. A best managed adolescent shapes one’s life better and at the same time, this stage brings more damage.

Dating, loving, meeting and living together are a way of life in western society. In India, this is a big taboo. The biggest challenge today is the caste system which has divided the Indian society badly. Education and economic development is slowly changing the ethical aspects of Indian society. Who knows, a day may come when these things become another way of life in India too.
Can anyone explain how a relationship begins. An instant flutter in the heart at the sight of someone or a hostile beginning. Is love a decease or something else. We never knew when it will begin to disturb.
Indian cinema portrays innovative ways of making relationships. First it will be a fight, then a crush, then love, then the misunderstanding, then the villain – played by the girl’s dad or brother and finally the happy end. Another villain could be the girl’s brother in law, who will behave as such he has so much responsibility on the girl, but every one knew the man’s hidden agenda. In between, there will be few songs, few fights, dialogues etc. In reel life, this is routine, but in real life, very few could experience these extra ordinary events.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Donkey's Milk

This happened sometime in 1972. Something about the Tamil teacher, an interesting character. Today, every management experts talk of time management. To the extent I know, I can confidently say, he was the first person to practice time management. He had never kept pending any of his assigned jobs for the next day. Why next day, not even to the next hour. Anything to be done should be done at the anointed hour. Immediately after the test is over, he will sit in his place and complete the paper valuations and send back the test papers to the class. Then only, he will leave the place.

He must have been in his mid forties and to our knowledge; he has been practicing this for the last 20 years or so. A much disciplined person.

My elder brother was his student earlier and then studying Tamil literature on his advice. He is very happy that one of his students is studying Tamil literature and due to this he had soft corner to me.

When we were in seventh class, his wife was expecting their second child. We all knew that his first boy was not keeping good health and was always on some medication. Few months back, one day afternoon, he called me to his cabin and asked whether any washer man live in my village. I said yes. Then he asked me whether I can get some donkey’s milk next day. He said it is required for medicinal purpose.

Any request from the teacher is an order only. In fact, it is an honor to get this kind of assignments from the teachers. There is no question of saying no, but this time, the request is something unique.

I didn’t know whether the washer man in our village has milking donkey. If not what is the option. Moreover, the idea of asking milk from the donkey man itself is funny. What the other boys will think. Anyway, I can’t ask him for the reason and purpose. While going back I told Padma about the Tamil teacher and the donkey’s milk. She was also serious like him. Padma was my childhood friend.

In the evening, when he told mom about the Tamil teacher and the donkey’s milk, she was surprised and amused. However, my father was sympathetic and assured that he will arrange. We both went to the washer man’s house.

On seeing us, the man came running. My dad is a respected person in the village, but very simple. Had he wanted something, he could have called the washer man instead of going to his place. The man was tensed.

My dad told him the requirement. He said, he has a milking donkey but very difficult to tame it. As his future was at stake, his dad decided to tame the donkey to get the milk. After two hours of hectic effort, we could milk about 100 ml of sweet milk, a very successful effort. It was yellowish white, but very thick like paste. Those days there was no refrigerator like things to store the milk, but somehow, my mom managed to keep the milk in condition till next day. I reached the milk to the Tamil sir, early morning next day.

Later, we came to know that his wife gave birth to his second child previous night and the child was first fed with the donkey’s milk. It was told that the donkey’s milk will ensure a very good health to the baby. No wonder, the donkeys are healthy. The whole night, the child has fasted for good health. Its funny, but who knows the child may have a very good health. Insah Allah.

The Tribute

I can forget the day

When I first went to school
Holding my mom’s hand…

I can forget the day
When my sister left my home
Holding her hubby’s hand…

I can forget the day
When I first entered college
With scared eyes and twisted legs…

I can forget the day
When the friends left
After the course is done…

I can forget the day
When I joined the first job
After great efforts…

I can forget the day
When I found my sweetheart
After a frantic search…

I can forget the day
When I heard the news of
My son’s birth…

I can forget the day
When my daughter
Gave birth to her daughter...

I can even forget those days
Of old and fragile
Counting on the scars of the past…

I can forget anything, but

It was in eighth standard,
Math class was on
The afternoon was hot…

Many were in trance
The teacher asked me to
Hit on those who were yawning…
It’s a chance to use,
While doing so
I had to pause…

As she was the teacher’s daughter,
My hand couldn’t hit
But touched like a kiss…

A whisper from the air
Is it love.

Felt like a needle
Punctured my heart…

The mind
Flew like a sponge in the sky…
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And the soul felt like
Touching a wild fire…

I couldn’t forget the whisper
Is it love.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Little things


Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Every behavior has an intention and every intention has an agenda. The agendas are invariably of selfish indent but portrayed to be on others’ interest.

Have you ever appreciated a hair dresser for the good cut. Generally, we intend to criticize the wrongs done by him than appreciating the good work. There are people who always go to the same saloon and look for the same expert to cut. We get tensed if we are forced to give our head to some one unknown or to a new guy. After all, it’s a matter of ten days – even a bad cut will get covered up.

Other day, I was waiting for my turn at the saloon where I frequent. There were two guys of whom one is known and the other is new. I wished the known guy should attend to me. Many a time, it will be just the opposite. The new guy got the chance to work on me. In the end, it was really a good cut. I thought I should appreciate the guy and said to him that he has done a very good job. The guy was so happy for the complement and said in his 10 years of service that was the first time he received such a compliment. For him, a no complaint from the client itself is the best appreciation. But one thing clear is that every one wants recognition.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Ten Important Words in Life

The Most Selfish " 1 " letter word.
" I " ---> Avoid It

The Most Satisfying " 2 " letter words.
" We " ---> Use It..

The Most Poisonous " 3 " letter word.
" Ego" ---> Kill It..

The Most Used " 4 " letter word.
" LOVE " --> Value It.

The Pleasing " 5 " letter words.
" SMILE " --> Keep It.

The Fastest Spreading " 6 " letter word.
" RUMOUR " --> Ignore it..

The Hardest working " 7 " Letter Word.
"SUCCESS " --> Achieve it..

The Most enviable " 8 " letter word.
" JEALOUSY " --> Distance It..

The Most Powerful " 9 " letter word..
" KNOWLEDGE " --> Acquire It.

The Most essential " 10 " letter word
" CONFIDENCE " -- > "Trust It.