Monday, June 7, 2010

Laughter - II

Laughing with others is more powerful
Shared laughter is one of the most effective tools for keeping relationships fresh and exciting. All emotional sharing builds strong and lasting relationships. Sharing laughter adds joy, vitality and resilience. Humor is a powerful and effective way to heal resentments, disagreements and hurts. Laughter unites people during difficult times.

Laughter and Relationships
Mutual laughter plays an essential component of strong, healthy relationships. By making a conscious effort to incorporate more humor into your daily interactions, you can improve the quality of your relationships as well as your connections with co-workers, family members and friends.

Bringing more humor and laughter into your life
Anyone can join the laughter movement. All it takes is a willingness to risk some loss of control. A sense of humor is not required. All we have to do is believe, let go, clap our hands and laughter will live again. Laughter is feeling deeply which allows us to live fully. Laughter is our birthright, a natural part of life that is innate and inborn. Infants begin smiling during the first weeks of life and laugh out loud within months of being born.

Begin by setting aside special times to seek out humor and laughter, as you might with working out, and build from there. Eventually, you’ll want to incorporate humor and laughter into the fabric of your life, finding it naturally in everything you do.

Here are some ways to start:
Smile. Smiling is the beginning of laughter. Like laughter, it’s contagious. Pioneers in “laugh therapy,” find it’s possible to laugh without even experiencing a funny event. The same holds for smiling. When you look at someone or see something even mildly pleasing, practice smiling.

Count your blessings. Literally make a list. The simple act of considering the good things in your life will distance you from negative thoughts that are a barrier to humor and laughter.

When you hear laughter, move towards it. Sometimes humor and laughter are private, a shared joke among a small group but usually not. More often, people are very happy to share something funny because it gives them an opportunity to laugh again and feed off the humor you find in it. When you hear laughter, seek it out and ask, “What’s funny?”

Spend time with fun, playful people. These are people who laugh easily both at themselves and at life’s absurdities and who routinely find the humor in everyday events. Their playful point of view and laughter are contagious.

Laugh at yourself. Share your embarrassing moments. The best way to take ourselves less seriously is talk about times when we took ourselves too seriously.

Laugh at situations. Look for the humor in a bad situation, the irony and absurdity of life. This will help improve your mood and the mood of those around you.

As laughter, humor and play become an integrated part of your life, your creativity will flourish. Humor takes you to a higher place where you can view the world from a more relaxed, positive, creative, joyful and balanced perspective.